Choose what feels right to you
Both participants answer in the shared workspace while keeping control of their own choices.
01 — Shared wishes
Turn your shared wishes into a contract made for your family.
GreatTogether helps you discuss and agree the choices that matter, then uses those shared wishes to create a contract specifically for your arrangement under the governing legal framework for your country and region. It is not a generic template with your names added.
✓ Built from your shared wishes✓ Grounded in your country and region✓ Legal framework reviewed every six months
Your choicesWhat matters to you?Answer privately and honestly
Their choicesWhat matters to them?See where your hopes align
First define your wishes. Then work through the differences. Finally build under the law that applies to you.
02 — The conversation
The value is not just in the answers. It is in the conversations between them.
You may begin with different ideas about contact, family roles, identity, boundaries or what should happen when life changes. GreatTogether does not hide those differences or force one person to follow the other.
Each difference becomes its own collaboration point. Open it directly in your private chat with the question and both answers already included, talk about what sits behind each choice, then return to propose the answer you want in your shared contract.
Focus only on what needs a conversation
Matching answers settle automatically. Different answers stay visible as clear discussion points.
Take the exact issue into private chat
Open a focused conversation containing the question and both viewpoints—without having to explain where the difference came from.
Turn the conversation into agreement
Propose your answer, use theirs or suggest another. It becomes shared only when the other person accepts it.
03 — Your law and contract
A fully custom contract, built from your wishes and the law governing where you live.
Your answers do not simply fill blanks in a standard document. The choices you reach together determine which provisions are selected and how your contract is assembled for your relationship model, country and region.
Your shared wishes drive the contract
Contact, parenthood intentions, identity, family roles, boundaries and future changes are reflected through the choices you both approve.
Your country and region shape the legal framework
For every supported jurisdiction, the questions and contract provisions are mapped to the governing law and authoritative legal sources for the relevant country and, where applicable, province, state or region.
The legal framework is reviewed twice a year
The law and sources behind every available jurisdiction are checked and reauthorised at least every six months so newly generated contracts continue to use the current reviewed framework.
Supported countries and jurisdictions
Nine countries. Thirty-two jurisdictional pathways.
Netherlands
Dutch
Belgium
Dutch, French & German
Germany
German
Denmark
Danish
Sweden
Swedish
United Kingdom
English
Australia
English
New Zealand
English
Canada
English & French
How it works
From a GreatTogether match to a custom agreement.
Once you have found someone whose hopes and intentions align with yours, the Contract Builder gives you one structured place to turn that connection into clear, shared decisions.
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Match and connect
Meet a prospective parent, known donor or future co-parent on GreatTogether. When you are both ready, open a private shared contract workspace together.
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Collaborate on the decisions
Answer independently, see where your choices differ and take each exact issue into private chat. Propose a shared answer and accept it together.
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Create the custom agreement
Approve the completed answer set together. GreatTogether then assembles the agreement for your relationship model and selected legal jurisdiction.
The legal framework behind every agreement
Country-specific law, applied to the choices you make together.
GreatTogether maps 17 legal and practical domains across 32 jurisdictional pathways. The builder adapts parenthood, consent, donor status, identity, contact, maintenance and dispute provisions to the official legal framework selected for the agreement.
Netherlands
Book 1 of the Dutch Civil Code and the Artificial Insemination Donor Data Act, including parenthood, recognition, parental authority, maintenance, contact and donor-identity rules.
Belgium
Belgian Civil Code filiation rules, the Law of 6 July 2007 on medically assisted reproduction and relevant Constitutional Court authority, in Dutch, French and German.
Germany
BGB parentage provisions including §§ 1591, 1592 and 1600d(4), the Sperm Donor Register Act and civil-status registration rules.
Denmark
Børneloven and Denmark’s assisted-reproduction framework, including the legally important distinction between authorised-clinic and private or home arrangements.
Sweden
Chapter 1 of Föräldrabalken and the Genetic Integrity Act (2006:351), including authorised treatment, foreign treatment and home-insemination distinctions.
United Kingdom
Human Fertilisation and Embryology Acts 1990 and 2008, with separate procedural and family-law context for England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.
Australia
Family Law Act 1975 together with the parentage and assisted-reproduction laws of every state and territory.
New Zealand
Status of Children Act 1969, Care of Children Act 2004 and Human Assisted Reproductive Technology Act 2004.
Canada
Federal assisted-reproduction and consent rules combined with the parentage laws of all ten provinces and three territories, including Quebec’s distinct filiation framework.
GreatTogether provides structured legal information and agreement drafting, not individual legal advice. Mandatory law, the child’s interests and any required court or registration process continue to apply. Independent jurisdiction-specific legal approval remains a separate release gate.
Build your agreement
Start your shared Contract Builder workspace.
Choose Known Donor, Donor Plus or Co-parent, select the relevant country and jurisdiction, and work through the decisions together.
The value of a contract made for you
Set your country to see your price
Complete your profile and select your country to see the correct local price and currency.
- Built from both participants’ shared wishes
- Assembled for your relationship model
- Grounded in the law governing your country and region
- Available to both participants after one payment
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