Be truthful
Use accurate photographs, age and profile information. Share your real name with a match before arrangements progress.
Safety at GreatTogether
Big hopes deserve a safe, thoughtful beginning.
Creating a family can begin with enormous hope. GreatTogether helps you protect that hope through honest profiles, respectful conversations and clearer expectations as you get to know someone.
The essential house rules
These standards apply to every member and every country community.
Respond respectfully
Reply to contact requests within a reasonable time, even when your answer is no or not yet.
Take time
Get to know each other properly, meet more than once and never pressure another member to move faster.
Discuss health honestly
Disclose relevant health, screening and hereditary information and communicate material changes.
Use appropriate conception routes
Requests for sexual intercourse as a donation method are prohibited on GreatTogether.
Put arrangements in writing
Use an appropriate donor agreement or co-parenting agreement before any donation or conception attempt.
Country rules differ. Clinic requirements, donor limits, parenthood and agreement enforceability depend on the applicable jurisdiction. GreatTogether provides country-specific information where available and does not treat one country’s rules as universal.
Before moving forward
A safer connection is built in stages
No badge or profile score can tell you everything about another person. Use the platform’s safeguards alongside careful real-world checks.
- 1Start on the platformUse contact requests and private messaging while you establish whether expectations align.
- 2Meet safelyChoose a public place, tell someone where you are going and arrange your own transport.
- 3Verify important informationCheck identity and relevant dated health or clinic documents yourself. A GreatTogether badge is not a medical or background check.
- 4Agree the detailsDiscuss involvement, origins, contact, privacy, health and boundaries before finalising a written agreement.
- 5Use appropriate adviceObtain current clinical or independent legal advice where your circumstances or jurisdiction require it.
Privacy, boundaries and reporting
Privacy-controlled profiles
Logged-out visitors receive limited member previews. Members control whether their public profile photograph is clear or blurred.
Read the privacy informationIdentity verification is planned
A separate paid identity-verification service is being prepared but is not currently available. Until launch, members should verify important identity and health information through appropriate secure and professional channels.
Private safety reports
Members can report inappropriate contact, misleading profiles, harassment or unsafe practices to authorised moderators.
Reporting tools are available after login.Blocking and boundaries
Members can block another member and stop direct interaction. A block does not replace contacting emergency services when someone is in immediate danger.
Need urgent help?
GreatTogether is not an emergency service, medical provider or crisis line. If anyone is in immediate danger, contact the emergency services or an appropriate local support organisation in your country.
Hope and reassurance belong together
Take the first step toward your future with greater confidence.
Create a thoughtful profile, meet people at your own pace and let trust grow before making plans.
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